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Saturday, July 04, 2009

Kia Ora #107

Our weekly LijandKris.com video update:

  • USA - 112 v. EGYPT – 55
  • 4th of July Party
  • “Doing Life Together” – Jesus in Public
  • Two Aimers departing this week
  • Kris and Caden are feeling much better
  • Thanks for your prayers!

View the video at www.LijandKris.com.

Friday, July 03, 2009

Reclaiming Abundant Life

“…thirteen”

“………fourteen”

“……”

“uhhhhhh…………fift………teen”

“WHA?????”

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So, (uhem) today I decided to do an old-fashioned push-up, just me and the Earth going at it!!! There’s nothing like knowing you can move an entire planet with your bear hands, just in case of an emergency, of course (and yes, I meant “Bear Hands”). I realize bears do not have hands, but if they did – besides looking weird – they’d resemble my hands (okay, I may be exaggerating a little) and would enable any bear so desiring to move an entire planet (could be exaggerating here too). A little over 3-months ago the Earth pushed back and I am only now realizing how bear-like I really am.

It didn’t come to any screeching halt (as some have prepared me for), but life definitely jumped a few tracks with the arrival of Caden. Of the countless insights I could convey, there is one unchanging truth with the arrival of all children to this world – there’s less space for you once they land. And that truth is no less apparent in our home, and more specifically, the MASTER bedroom (did you hear the emphasis ‘echo’ when you read the word “MASTER-TER-TER-ter-ter” too?).

It’s amazing how one little change (well…he is a little person) can have such an incredible impact on your life, even things such as nightly push-ups. Weeks of physical discipline and mental attuning rendered useless with the erection of Caden’s little baby hammock crowding my traditional work space! It was as if I traded fitness for fatherhood (wait-a-second!!!). One day I’m minding my own earth-moving business (catching up with Chuck Norris), then the next moment it’s 3-months later and I just now realize I have been push-up free.

Funny how we can forget things so easily.

Actually, it makes perfect sense. I stopped doing Earth-Downs (don’t laugh) because I let something else take its place in my life. I let something else occupy the ground upon which I would exercise. 

Now, let me be honest, I couldn’t care less that Caden’s arrival has changed life up a bit. SO WHAT if I never move the earth again (it was fun while it lasted). SO WHAT if the house becomes a little smaller. Both of those things (and numerous others) are trivial in comparison to the incredible joy I experience every day when my boy looks up at me and smiles! Having him is priceless! I don’t care about those things.

What I do REALLY care about though is understanding how I’ve managed to trade away God’s space in my life!

Ah yes, the point of this absurd blog post.

Our schedules grow…our lives evolve…and sacred ground once held dear in our lives is sold (and far too often) to the lowest bidder.

It’s time with our spouses, our kids, our families, our friends and OUR God that is systematically being sucked away until very little, if anything, remains. It’s like waking up from hibernation to find that the forest you once lived in was fully clear-cut, leaving you now naked and exposed.

Some how, in our slumber, the enemy has managed to steal that which we were made for, that which we were meant for! What’s worse, many of us remain in a zombie-like stupor unfazed at the revelation of this mass-extinction of divine real-estate in our lives.

There was a day, not too long ago when you couldn’t keep your eyes off of her. There was a day, not too long ago, when all you could think about was him. There was a day, not too long ago, that wasn’t complete without that special kiss, that warm embrace, that loving smile. And there was a day, not too long ago, you’d trade every last cent of your worth just to be in His presence.

May today be the day you re-claim the space in your life. Your time spent humbled with God in prayer – re-claim it. Time spent being transformed in his Word – re-claim it! Time spent walking in the presence of God – re-claim it! Time spent exchanging love with your family – re-claim it! Re-claim the Abundant Life you were meant for!

You will never travel this way again. Today comes only once. Eternity beyond this life is closer than ever.

…you have a reputation for being alive, but you are dead. Wake up! Strengthen what remains and is about to die…

- Revelation 3 (NIV)

The thief comes only to steal and kill and destroy;  I came that they may have life, and have it abundantly

- John 10 (NASB)

Saturday, June 27, 2009

Kia Ora #106

Our Weekly LijandKris.com video update:

  • Kristen is sick….again!
  • Caden is sleeping….again!
  • We are exhausted….again! (that’s life, eh?)
  • Great Harding Campaign!
  • Declaring the Truth of God’s word

(View the video at www.LijandKris.com)

Saturday, June 20, 2009

Kia Ora #105

Our weekly LijandKris.com video update:

  • Meet Jacque!
  • Harding Campaign is Here!
  • Community Service
  • Advertising for the Seminar
  • How was the Parenting Seminar?
  • Prayer Requests
  • Pictures from the Seminar

(View the video on our Website: www.LijandKris.com)

Tuesday, June 16, 2009

“Parenting: It’s not all about you”

Returning to the Blogosphere…

In just a few moments we will begin our first wave of advertising for the Parenting Seminar our church is hosting this weekend.

“Parenting: It’s not all about you” – It’s about relying upon the resources God intended for us to use to raise a family. It’s about realizing a community of support (Friends, Neighbors, etc.); It’s about transforming a society to protect our children, our values, our future; It’s about being connected with God, for only a relationship with our creator can meet our inmost needs and desires, concerns and shortcomings, and fulfill every last purpose we were made for.

1,000+ homes will be invited today through the efforts of our incredible AIM Students and visiting Harding Campaigners. Meanwhile, six of us will be here at my house prayerfully backing these efforts, for we depend not upon our own strength, but upon the one who draws men and women alike into his perfect love.

We are not disillusioned though, for the message of this seminar is neither popular nor easy to follow. In this society many have not only become content just to depend upon themselves for resource and worth, but many also believe the poor results they are gleaning in their families are the best one can really expect in life.

Mind you, life isn’t easy - there’s no mistaking the pain countless people experience every day - and I have the utmost respect, concern and sympathy for the challenges everyone faces in this life, but that is all the more reason why I believe in the power of this message! We’re not passing judgment upon the community, we’re providing a mirror of truth. Evaluate your life, your decisions, your results and compare them with the truth of God and the power of his presence. We’re offering a perfect mirror to reflect both the truth of our condition and solution that can be had! And with that mirror comes also a hand to hold, a shoulder to cry on, outstretched arms, ears to listen, and a heart love – the message of God comes with me, you, and all of us who have chosen life with him!

It is our message that our families are worth fighting for, they are worth the “inconvenience” – the denial of our immediate interests for the sake of the “Big Picture” – they are worth every ounce of investment in those things which are eternal, for the alternative (any alternative), will show no discretion, they will all leave us unfulfilled.

We invite you to join us as we pray for this community. Be it one, or be it many, pray that lives are transformed!

Saturday, June 13, 2009

Kia Ora #104

Our weekly LijandKris.com video update:

  • We’re “Under the Weather
  • The Harding Campaign is upon us!
  • Parenting Seminar
  • Charles and Cara Speer returning
  • Visit with Ken Graves (Director of Global Outreach – Harding University)
  • Reuniting with Friends!

View the video at our website: www.LijandKris.com

Saturday, June 06, 2009

Kia Ora #103

Our weekly LijandKris.com video update:

  • WE’RE BACK IN NEW ZEALAND!!!
  • Trip Summary
  • Busy schedule in the coming weeks
  • Family and Parenting Seminar
  • Harding Campaign
  • *A SPECIAL REPORT* from Charles and Cara Speer!!!
  • Thank you for all of your prayers!

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